Skip dating apps.
Meet real people, in real life — every Thursday.

IRL dinners with 6 singles, matched by what matters.

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How it works

Take our quick compatibility quiz

Take a short quiz. Each week, we match 6 compatible singles (3 men + 3 women) for a real-life dinner — based on what actually matters.

No swiping

Deeper matching

Real conversations

More intention, less pressure

Show up for dinner

We book a table at a cozy restaurant and send you all the details — just come ready to connect.

Casual, curated dinners

Safe, welcoming vibe

Meet face-to-face

No small talk fatigue

Build real chemistry — not just matches

Build real chemistry,
not just matches

Enjoy real conversation. If there’s a spark, reconnect after dinner — only if it’s mutual. No more endless chatting behind a screen.

Real energy, real laughs

Deeper bonds

Chemistry-first dating

No ghosting

"We're about bringing people together the old-school way — face-to-face, with no filters, no faking, and no pressure."

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80%

Feel overwhelmed by choices

Endless options lead to decision paralysis & shallow connections

67%

Make snap judgments based on looks

Looks overshadow meaningful interactions & connection

59%

Struggle with shallow conversations

Most interactions feel empty, making it hard to truly connect

25%

Are regularly ghosted

The lack of communication creates frustration & mistrust

52%

Are rushed to decide on their options

Apps push fast decisions that don't allow for real emotional connection

1 in 5

Profiles are fake or misleading

Fake profiles make it hard to trust the dating experience and meet genuine people

Faq's

Faq's

How is Beforehellos different from other dating apps?

We’re not your typical dating app. Beforehellos is a platform that brings singles together face-to-face — through hosted dinners, real conversations, and chemistry built offline, not on a screen.

How is Beforehellos different from other dating apps?

We’re not your typical dating app. Beforehellos is a platform that brings singles together face-to-face — through hosted dinners, real conversations, and chemistry built offline, not on a screen.

How is Beforehellos different from other dating apps?

We’re not your typical dating app. Beforehellos is a platform that brings singles together face-to-face — through hosted dinners, real conversations, and chemistry built offline, not on a screen.

Who can sign up?

Singles who are ready for real, face-to-face connection — no apps, no ghosting. BeforeHellos is currently designed exclusively for heterosexual relationships. We're focused on solving the unique challenges and dynamics affecting modern male-to-female dating — building a space where real chemistry and genuine connection can thrive.

Who can sign up?

Singles who are ready for real, face-to-face connection — no apps, no ghosting. BeforeHellos is currently designed exclusively for heterosexual relationships. We're focused on solving the unique challenges and dynamics affecting modern male-to-female dating — building a space where real chemistry and genuine connection can thrive.

Who can sign up?

Singles who are ready for real, face-to-face connection — no apps, no ghosting. BeforeHellos is currently designed exclusively for heterosexual relationships. We're focused on solving the unique challenges and dynamics affecting modern male-to-female dating — building a space where real chemistry and genuine connection can thrive.

How much does it cost to join Beforehellos?

You’ve got two options: – $20 to book a one-time dinner – Or $30/month to access up to 4–5 dinners per month (one every Thursday) Our monthly option gives you access to all Thursday dinners that month. Most months include 4 dinners, and a few months even have 5 Thursdays—yes, that’s 5 dinners for the same price. It’s the best value if you’re looking to meet great people consistently.

How much does it cost to join Beforehellos?

You’ve got two options: – $20 to book a one-time dinner – Or $30/month to access up to 4–5 dinners per month (one every Thursday) Our monthly option gives you access to all Thursday dinners that month. Most months include 4 dinners, and a few months even have 5 Thursdays—yes, that’s 5 dinners for the same price. It’s the best value if you’re looking to meet great people consistently.

How much does it cost to join Beforehellos?

You’ve got two options: – $20 to book a one-time dinner – Or $30/month to access up to 4–5 dinners per month (one every Thursday) Our monthly option gives you access to all Thursday dinners that month. Most months include 4 dinners, and a few months even have 5 Thursdays—yes, that’s 5 dinners for the same price. It’s the best value if you’re looking to meet great people consistently.

What’s included with Beforehellos?

Beforehellos includes a restaurant reservation, compatibility-based matching with 5 other singles, and curated conversation starters to guide the night. The cost of your meal is paid directly at the restaurant.

What’s included with Beforehellos?

Beforehellos includes a restaurant reservation, compatibility-based matching with 5 other singles, and curated conversation starters to guide the night. The cost of your meal is paid directly at the restaurant.

What’s included with Beforehellos?

Beforehellos includes a restaurant reservation, compatibility-based matching with 5 other singles, and curated conversation starters to guide the night. The cost of your meal is paid directly at the restaurant.

How are groups matched?

We use your compatibility quiz responses — including values, personality, and preferences — to form a group of 3 men and 3 women, where each guest is thoughtfully matched with the opposite sex for the best chance at real connection.

How are groups matched?

We use your compatibility quiz responses — including values, personality, and preferences — to form a group of 3 men and 3 women, where each guest is thoughtfully matched with the opposite sex for the best chance at real connection.

How are groups matched?

We use your compatibility quiz responses — including values, personality, and preferences — to form a group of 3 men and 3 women, where each guest is thoughtfully matched with the opposite sex for the best chance at real connection.

How do I join a dinner?

To join, just click “Book Your Seat” on our homepage and fill out our 20-question personality quiz. This helps us place you in the best dinner group possible. After completing the quiz, you’ll receive an email from our team with a link to book and pay for your seat at the next dinner ($20). Once your spot is confirmed, you’ll get all the dinner details (including time, location, and a glimpse of your group) the evening before. It’s that simple—quiz, book, show up.

How do I join a dinner?

To join, just click “Book Your Seat” on our homepage and fill out our 20-question personality quiz. This helps us place you in the best dinner group possible. After completing the quiz, you’ll receive an email from our team with a link to book and pay for your seat at the next dinner ($20). Once your spot is confirmed, you’ll get all the dinner details (including time, location, and a glimpse of your group) the evening before. It’s that simple—quiz, book, show up.

How do I join a dinner?

To join, just click “Book Your Seat” on our homepage and fill out our 20-question personality quiz. This helps us place you in the best dinner group possible. After completing the quiz, you’ll receive an email from our team with a link to book and pay for your seat at the next dinner ($20). Once your spot is confirmed, you’ll get all the dinner details (including time, location, and a glimpse of your group) the evening before. It’s that simple—quiz, book, show up.

Where are the dinners held?

At cozy restaurants in your city. You’ll get all the details once you're matched.

Where are the dinners held?

At cozy restaurants in your city. You’ll get all the details once you're matched.

Where are the dinners held?

At cozy restaurants in your city. You’ll get all the details once you're matched.

What if I have food restrictions?

Tell us when you book your seat — we’ll work with the restaurant to accommodate you.

What if I have food restrictions?

Tell us when you book your seat — we’ll work with the restaurant to accommodate you.

What if I have food restrictions?

Tell us when you book your seat — we’ll work with the restaurant to accommodate you.

Is this just for serious dating?

Beforehellos is a dating platform — but we don’t force the outcome. Our goal is to create real connection first, whether it turns into dating, friendship, or something more.

Is this just for serious dating?

Beforehellos is a dating platform — but we don’t force the outcome. Our goal is to create real connection first, whether it turns into dating, friendship, or something more.

Is this just for serious dating?

Beforehellos is a dating platform — but we don’t force the outcome. Our goal is to create real connection first, whether it turns into dating, friendship, or something more.

What if I’m shy or introverted?

That’s totally fine. Our dinners are small, relaxed, and built for natural conversation.

What if I’m shy or introverted?

That’s totally fine. Our dinners are small, relaxed, and built for natural conversation.

What if I’m shy or introverted?

That’s totally fine. Our dinners are small, relaxed, and built for natural conversation.

How do I contact Beforehellos?

Email us anytime at hey@beforehellos.com — we’d love to hear from you!

How do I contact Beforehellos?

Email us anytime at hey@beforehellos.com — we’d love to hear from you!

How do I contact Beforehellos?

Email us anytime at hey@beforehellos.com — we’d love to hear from you!