We’re here to spark real, meaningful connections—over dinner, not DMs. That means creating a safe, respectful space where everyone can show up as their authentic self.

Our Core Standards

To keep our community safe and thriving, here’s what we expect:

✅ Be Real
– You must be 18+ to join.
– Use your real name and a clear photo of yourself.
– No impersonation or fake profiles—one account per person.

✅ Be Respectful
– Harassment, hate speech, or bullying of any kind won’t be tolerated.
– No nudity, sexual content, or inappropriate behavior—online or in-person.
– Respect everyone’s boundaries and identities.

✅ Be Safe
– No talk of or involvement in violence, exploitation, scams, or illegal activity.
– No promotion or distribution of controlled substances.
– Don’t show up intoxicated or disruptive.

✅ Be Present
– Show up if you’ve booked. No-shows or bringing a guest without permission may lead to suspension.
– One seat = one person. No +1s.
– No using multiple platforms to double-book or scam promos.

✅ Be Thoughtful
– No unsolicited explicit images or remarks—ever.
– Share mental health experiences with care; no glorifying self-harm.
– If something feels off, report it. We review every report carefully.

Reporting & Questions

Help us keep BeforeHellos safe. Report issues or violations to hey@beforehellos.com.

Serious or repeated violations may lead to suspension or a permanent ban—without warning.

Thanks for being part of a community that values connection, not chaos.